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A Professional Life Coach Response to Criticism

 1. On the claim that “life coaches are failed psychology majors”
Life coaching is not psychology, nor is it meant to replace therapy. Psychology is a clinical discipline focused on diagnosing and treating mental illness, whereas life coaching is a forward-focused practice that emphasizes personal growth, accountability, and goal achievement. Many life coaches come from diverse professional and academic backgrounds—education, business, health, leadership, and yes, sometimes psychology—because coaching is about applying a range of skills to help people clarify their vision and take action. Calling coaches “failed psychology majors” is a mischaracterization. The reality is that credible coaches build expertise through training, continuing education, and real-world experience, not by positioning themselves as pseudo-psychologists.


2. On the issue of “anyone can get certified”
It’s true that the coaching industry is less regulated than fields like medicine or law, which means standards vary. But that doesn’t mean all certifications are meaningless. Reputable training programs, especially those accredited by organizations such as the International Coaching Federation (ICF), require hundreds of hours of study, supervised practice, and adherence to strict ethical guidelines. Just as in fitness training, where anyone can call themselves a “trainer,” the difference lies in whether a coach pursues rigorous, recognized training and continues to refine their practice. Serious coaches invest time and money into their professional development, not just to earn a certificate but to serve clients responsibly.


3. On the claim that “life coaching is a scam”
A scam is defined as intentional deception for financial gain without delivering value. Credible life coaches are not in the business of deceiving people—they are in the business of empowering them. Coaches provide structure, accountability, perspective, and strategies that help clients make tangible progress in areas like career transitions, health, relationships, confidence, and quality of life. Many clients report profound changes in clarity, resilience, and motivation as a result of coaching. The fact that so many individuals and organizations—from entrepreneurs to Fortune 500 companies—invest in coaching demonstrates its legitimacy and value when practiced ethically.


4. The reality of the profession
Like any industry, there are weak practitioners and strong practitioners. Just as there are unqualified therapists, trainers, or consultants, there are also unqualified coaches. But to dismiss the entire field because of the lowest common denominator ignores the many professionals who dedicate themselves to mastering their craft and changing lives.


5. The client’s role in discernment
Ultimately, it is up to clients to do their due diligence: ask about training, certification, experience, philosophy, and approach before hiring a coach. A true professional will be transparent about their qualifications and will never claim to “replace therapy” or “fix” mental health issues. Instead, they will position coaching as a unique and complementary process—one that bridges the gap between where you are and where you want to be.

What it is:

“Life coaching isn’t about pretending to be something it’s not—it’s about providing support, accountability, and fresh perspective to help people take action and create meaningful change. While it’s true the industry has less regulation than psychology, responsible and skilled coaches distinguish themselves through training, integrity, and results. Dismissing life coaching as a scam overlooks the very real impact it has on countless lives every single day.”

Life Coaching FAQ

Here's a list of some of the most frequently asked questions that I have come across.  I hope you find this section useful!

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What is Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)?

NLP is a method that explores how language, thoughts, and behaviors connect—helping you reframe patterns and create positive change.

What is REBT?

Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) focuses on identifying and challenging unhelpful beliefs to promote healthier thinking and behavior.

What is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)?

CBT is a structured approach that helps you recognize negative thought patterns and replace them with healthier, more effective ones.

Do you offer sliding scale payments?

Yes. I offer flexible rates to ensure coaching is accessible to those who need it.

I have never been to a life coach before. Is that okay?

That’s perfectly fine—many clients start with no prior experience. Coaching is collaborative, supportive, and tailored to you.

What will it cost?

Please contact me to learn more about private regular weekly or bi-weekly sessions. NOTE: The Continuum Method™ is a distinct premium program, not the same as hourly coaching.  The Continuum Method Program is $2,500.00.  Click HERE to learn more.

How many sessions are necessary?

Every client is different. Some find value in just a few sessions, while others continue long-term for ongoing support. NOTE: The Continuum Method™ is a distinct premium program, not the same as hourly coaching.

How often do we have sessions?

Most clients meet weekly or bi-weekly, but frequency is flexible and based on your needs unless you are in a premium program.  The program schedules are determined after onboarding to fit your needs and the facilitator's needs.

Can I do this totally online?

Yes. I offer HIPAA-compliant video sessions so you can work with me from anywhere.

Is in-person a possibility?

Yes, I meet with clients in person if they are within 30 minutes of Portland, Maine.

Will in-person sessions be in my home or business?

Yes, I can meet you in your home or business if it’s within my travel range.

Can I continue to see my therapist during these sessions?

Absolutely. Coaching can complement therapy, and many clients benefit from doing both.

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Do you accept health insurance?

No. At this time, coaching is private-pay only.

Can I have my spouse sit in with me during the sessions?

Yes, with your consent. Some clients find it helpful to involve a spouse or partner.

Is there a lot of written after-session 'homework'?

Not necessarily. I may suggest simple practices or reflections, but they’re always tailored to your goals and lifestyle.

Is life coaching the same as seeing a psychologist?

No. Coaching focuses on personal growth and future goals, while psychology addresses mental health conditions. Coaching is not a substitute for therapy.

Note & Disclaimer: My coaching services should never be considered a replacement for psychological, psychiatric, or doctor-prescribed health care. They are stand-alone services designed to empower growth and change, and they can also serve as a complement to the care you may already be receiving.

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